Tough Talk,
My wife and I love each other, but we are going through some problems. She’s nasty and surly and says so many stupid things it’s unbelievable. And then she turns around and accuses me of the exact same thing, just repeating what I say. We’re both Christian and won’t consider a divorce. Money is tight but should we go to a marriage counselor? What should I do TT? (Refuse, NV)
Refuse,
The best thing to do is spend some time apart from each other and see if you can get a one night stand and go for it. Maybe the purchase of some services might be the trick as you live in Nevada where prostitution is perfectly legal. But under no circumstance should you waste your time and money on a marriage counselor as they are worthless and useless. Some columnists will of course disagree. And to that I say pull your head out from up your ass and stop being a SFBM. Word . . .