TT,
I was named a Robin [or insert Francis, Jody, Tracey, Beverly, Hillary, Dana] which I was told was a boy’s name but it was also a girl’s name and I was mocked out for it since I was a little kid. Sometimes I could hold my own and punch some kids in the face, but I also was laughed at. I’ve just learned that my nephew wants to name his first born after me. I am of course flattered that he would honor me as such, but I am also worried that his little dude will go through any crap. Should I tell them that it is a bad move and risk their rejection? What should I do TT? (Toogers, TN)
Toogers,
You should be flattered that they want to show you their kindness and respect by naming their child after you as ridiculous as it might sound. You may be surprised to know that I have never received such an accolade. Don’t be a dope and tell them the truth and that is a boy that has a girl’s name will go through grief (or any kid who has some weird name). They can do what they like, but it’s true and their child may grow to despise them.
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