Tough Talk,
My husband is a decent guy whose wife passed away a few years ago. Out of the goodness of his heart, he has allowed her brother to stay with us in the side room that we built with our own hands while ago. It was only temporary until he got on his feet, but he just mooches off us, watches tv all hours of the day, is loud and inconsiderate and I’ve noticed small, but sentimental and valuable items missing. When I ask if he’s seen something, he pauses, smirks and says no laughing like he did take it, but it’s a big joke. My husband refuses to address these issues claiming he’s depressed (which is just a copout for his rude behavior). What should I do?
(Chapman’s Bluff, IN)
CB,
It is clear that both your husband and his former brother-in-law are gutless, spineless toads. I would wait for a clear sunny day when you are at home all day and he is out gallivanting around. First lock him out of this room and move his belongings to the curb or garage. You must show who is boss and refuse to tolerate this nonsense anymore and throw his ass out. Also, if for some reason you can’t do this, find other people to start hanging out in his space, maybe homeless people if possible, and he will get the message.
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Tough Talk 