Tough Talk,
My 79 year-old Aunt “Betsy” wants to have her entire family over for her eightieth birthday. Bless her heart, she wants to make all our favorite meals and a little catering too, for almost 30 people. However, she is from another generation and does not like all these new fangled devices like smart phones. She has asked that we leave them in the car or at home for her party. My kids, nephews, nieces and even some of us older adults, seem to be addicted to them. How should I deal with my kids who I know will be a problem? (Mattydale, Oregon)
Mattydale,
You tell your spoiled-brat rugrats that they will comply with the request and that in life there are familial obligations that surpass their pathetic and childish needs. Explain in no uncertain terms that they will be going to the party and will leave their damn phones at home. They will not embarrass or bring shame to you at Aunt Betsy’s party. Otherwise, there will be hell to pay. And you must say this harshly. Don’t tolerate any crap. What happens if Aunt Betsy kicks the bucket? Then how would you feel?
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