Tough Talk,
My sister and brother-in-law have a son who is a fine young man. He married a woman, let’s call her “Olga,” who had two children with him. One day she kicked him out of the house and won’t let his parents see the children. It has caused a lot of pain for my sister and her husband, but what can she do. TT, would it be appropriate if I sent a kind letter, not accusatory but concerned that the grandkids aren’t seeing their grand parents? (Syosapequa, NY)
Syosapeekwo,
It is not appropriate! What is appropriate is sending that young lady an honest and harsh letter telling her that she is harming the best interests of the children by depriving them of contact with their grandparents and she’s being a real guttersnipe for doing that. She must understand that she is stupid and nasty. Kids love their grandparents. That’s just how it is. She’s a stuck up piece of manure for pulling this crap to begin with.
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