Tough Talk,
My father has always favored my sister over me, even though I take care of him, regularly stay in touch and do whatever I can to help him. He is usually nice, but when little sis comes up, he gets mean and downright nasty, even though she barely calls him and blows him off all the time for birthdays and holidays. It’s starting to bother me as it’s the same old refrain over and over again, explaining why I’m not nearly as intelligent and as accomplished as she is. (Randolph, Iowa)
Randolph,
In these situations, it’s important not blame your sister for your father’s poor and crummy parenting. It’s not her fault that he is a real dingleberry. The next time he bats off like that, tell him GFY or ES. You can also respond, that “although I may not be as smart, at least I am not a complete jackoff like you are you schmuck.” Who the hell does he think he is talking to you like that, especially when you do so much for him? After you chew him out, blow him off in a big way. He may realize what a dope he is, but don’t count on it.
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