Tough Talk,
I have a friend from college and we’ve stayed in touch through the years. She was always kind and decent-hearted. We always send each other birthday and holiday cards. Lately though, she has been sending me these crappy cards that non-profit groups send out for free for donations. They are also dirty with coffee stains and other markings. I always send her nice store-bought cards that keep getting more and more expensive. It’s not a big deal, but she’s also been testy on the phone when we catch up every few weeks – saying some snide remark about my weight. I’ve porked up a bit, but she doesn’t have to rub it in my face as she is in great shape. Tough Talk, what do you think? (McHooters Bend, Indiana)
McHooters,
It sounds like your friend is getting bitter with age and losing her sense of self. A common result of modern day-life. You shouldn’t ignore this change in behavior. You should now send her cards that are made from your paper garbage like envelopes, post-it notes or whatever refuse you may come across. For example, my brother took a X-mas card, crossed out the message and sent it as a happy birthday card. Also McHooters, the next time she puts you down for gaining a little weight, you can tell her that at least you’re not a stuck up snot and arrogant jerk. This is something you have to do, especially with the holiday season upon us.
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Tough Talk 