Tough Talk,
I have a two daughters and a son with nephews, nieces and grandkids I’m sure to follow. My son’s boy Torg works nearby and as much as we want to see him, he drops by at the most unexpected and annoying times. Recently, he’s been getting worse by making demands and helping himself to a pop or whatever else is in the fridge. We don’t mind his visits, but he doesn’t help out when you need it and acts like we’re doing him a favor TT. Like we should be waiting on him hand and foot. What do you think we should do? (Trovers, Montana)
Trovers,
You need to take matters in to your own hands and the next time Torg (no wonder he’s a dingleberry) shows up, you make him wait outside for at least five minutes and any more pop you handout is flat or watered down with bath water or dish detergent. Get some type of annoying music or new age wackage to play as soon as he shows up. Also, have a long list of chores you need him to immediately do like unclogging a toilet bowl or cleaning up after the neighborhood dogs. If this doesn’t work, get back to me. ###