Today’s Column: February 23, 2023

Tough Talk,

I had a friend from high school and we did everything together and were inseparable.  And then one guy I had a crush on liked her more. I became so jealous and overnight I made her my worst enemy and said and did awful things I’m ashamed to admit.  Looking back, I wish I behaved differently and want to apologize.  She however refuses to talk to me whatsoever.  I feel really bad and want to make amends.  What should I do TT?  (Bailey, Utah)

Bailey,

Although you were a child when this happened, you have to accept that you acted like a POS and no one would ever want to hang out with you.  However, I suggest you find her on her way to work or other unexpected moment and scream at the top of your lungs, “I’m sorry for being such a B!  What do you want?” And then start a fight, but let her win.  She will then forgive you or at least diminish the hostility against you.  You may have to take an ass-kicking, but that’s what you deserve.  If you really want her friendship, this is what you’ll have to do.

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