Tough Talk,
My ex-sister-in-law went through a bitter divorce after she learned that my brother cheated on her. He wasn’t perfect, but neither was she. But because of all the proof she had, my niece and nephews think she is a saint and their Dad is a piece of crap. I just learned that she also had an affair while she was married too. I don’t want to stir up the past and cause any problems, but she has always acted holier than thou – as if she’s so innocent and pure. What do you think I should do TT? (Freemont, Utah)
Freemont,
You need to immediately bring this to the attention of the entire family and community. But you need to do it as if you’re just trying to confirm the story – you don’t believe it yourself. Don’t let it rest and keep bringing it up. Don’t worry about the ramifications of exposing her and what it does to the family. Maybe an ad in the local paper. Always reveal hypocrisy when you can. You have no other choice in this matter.
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Tough Talk 