Tough Talk,
I Just learned a secret and that is my “sister” is actually my “mother” and my mother is actually a great aunt. Things were different way back when but even today, it would cause a lot of grief and hard feelings when all these relative realize they’ve been lied to for years. Also, I’m currently not talking to my “Big Sis” for a bunch of other reasons. Should I let the cat out of the bag notwithstanding how much grief and anguish that may result? (Eltham, New Jersey)
Eltham,
Being brutally honest with all your family members is the only solution in this situation. You need to immediately tell the truth and let the chips fall where they may. If your family gets bent out of joint, that’s their problem . . . not yours. It’s the only choice you have.
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Tough Talk 