Tough Talk,
I’m in a relationship with a man who is almost 40 years my senior. We’re both married and I know it’s wrong, but there is this something between us. For the two years we’ve been together, he has said just move in with him in his nearby city and we will work out the rest. Finally, I told him when could I move in and he just started stammering. He was clearly surprised that I was seriously considering it as my husband has been really nasty lately as his Sunday comics collection was recently damaged in a flood. What should I do now that he’s changing his tune? (Niagara Falls, South Dakota)
Niagara,
It’s not clear what is exactly wrong with the two “loves” of your life, but what is apparent is that you have a really bad taste in men. Both these guys are losers of the highest order. The guy who wants you to move in with him was lying to you from the start (probably just to get into your goodysack) and comic crybaby is too clueless to know what’s up. Cut both of these squidleys loose.
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