Tough Talk,
I started dating this this really great guy and we are taking it slowing after both of us having just gotten past bad relationships. My sister is getting married and she more or less decided to go out of her way and invite him to the wedding. The thing is, I think it’s too soon to present him to the family as he does have some personality querks. But now he’s wants to get a tuxedo and is acting like he’s going to be the star of the show. What do you think I should do TT? (Okell, Oregon)
Okie,
Two problems: (1) Sis should keep her big fat mouth shut and mind her own damn business, (2) Your new boyfriend shouldn’t assume that you want him there notwithstanding the invite. You have a little work cut out for yourself: First, tell sis to shut her piehole and if she doesn’t like it to blow it out her corn shoot. And two, tell the new boyfriend that his quirks are weird and he gives you the creeps. He’s not welcome . . . because you don’t want him there. If he doesn’t like it, TS. Don’t be afraid to stand up for yourself.
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Tough Talk 