Tough Talk,
I have a good friend who is going to have her 50th birthday. She tells everyone that she doesn’t want any mention of this anywhere and will refuse to accept presents or cards or anything about it. We will respect her wishes, but everyone wants to celebrate her, especially at this time. I’m not sure what to do TT? (Olcott, Wyoming)
Olcott,
This is why we have surprise parties. You need to go with your gut, and throw the biggest bash you can, whether she likes it or not. And if she won’t come to you, take it to her place. If she doesn’t like it . . . TS. Your need to express yourself, especially in this situation, is more important than her need to play primadonna.
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Tough Talk 