Tough Talk,
My father has been in and out of my life since I can remember. He shows up with gifts and all the things we’re going to do, but then disappears until the next holiday or birthday – leaving me sad and lonely. Now he is ill and wants us to help and take care of him when his wife and other children refuse to do so. I’m upset with him, but feel guilty if I don’t help. What should I do TT? (Sheffield, Florida)
Shuffled,
Tell Dad you’re going to help him and take care of him the way he did for you. You should then schedule times when you’ll visit, but never show up. If he complains or gets upset, send him some gum or other cheap candy as a token of your respect. You can also bring him stuff you wish to throw away or find on the street. He deserves no less.
(This column is Post No. 365. Thanking everyone for your support!)
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Tough Talk 