Author Archives: Tough Talk: An Advice Column

Tough Talk, I work at a building and one of the security guards is really off-standish and sometimes even rude.  I know what he does is important, but that doesn’t mean he gets to boss people around and act superior.  What do think I should do TT? (Britannia, Idaho) Britney, First off, what he doesContinue reading “Tough Talk: October 19, 2023”

Tough Talk, I just started dating a wonderful young lady and she is the kindest, sweetest and prettiest woman I have ever been able to get to go out with me.  There is one problem that she has and that is she has overpowering body odor.  It’s like this cross between a bag of doritoesContinue reading “Tough Talk: October 18, 2023”

Tough Talk, I recently purchased an old style electric egg beater.  One of my neighbors loved it and asked to borrow it for a party I wasn’t invited to .  I knew it was a bad idea but agreed anyways.  After continually asking for it back, she finally admitted that she broke it and wouldContinue reading “Tough Talk: October 17, 2023”

Tough Talk, I have a good friend who is having a surprise birthday party.  I sent a gift to his sister’s house.  It’s been confirmed as received, but I was thinking of giving a quick phone call just to make sure.  Is this a good idea TT? (Klein, Washington) Of course, but you need toContinue reading “Tough Talk: Ocotber 16, 2023”

Tough Talk, I have a younger sister who has developmental disabilities and needs care givers.  My wife and I are successful, but with both of us retiring, we can’t offer the support that he had.  What do you think we should do TT?  (Hershey, Minnesota) Candy Bar, Unfortunately in America, you’ll have to end upContinue reading “Tough Talk: October 5, 2023”

Tough Talk, I am sick and tired of my husband who does nothing but complain and mope around the house.  I have pain in my hands and can’t wash the dishes, but insist on a clean house.  That is the only demand I make on him and take care of everything else.  But he refusesContinue reading “Tough Talk: October 4, 2023”

Tough Talk, I am an elderly person who cares very much about the people around me.  I help out whenever asked and really do a lot for my neighbors and friends.  But for my birthday, no one said a word, sent me a card or did anything nice.  I certainly didn’t expect a surprise party,Continue reading “Tough Talk: October 3, 2023”

Tough Talk, I just had a child and the in-laws want to meet her, but I just don’t want to see them right away.  They’re bossy, pushy and expect to be waited on hand and foot.  How long is too long to put off the inevitable TT? (Hickory Hill, Tennessee) HH, Why is inevitable?  IContinue reading “Tough Talk: September 28, 2023”

Tough Talk, I know this is a stupid question, but do you think I should tell my husband about his hygiene since he can work from home?  He barely shaves or washes anymore except one day of the week when he has to go to the office.  Am I being selfish TT? (Hollybrook, Nevada) Holly,Continue reading “Tough Talk: September 27, 2023”

Hey everybody, I went to the Supernova Ska Bash in Hampton, VA. Three days (28 hours of 2-Tone Ska). Horseflies bit you and hurt. Awful little burrs and sunburned. But great concert. Be back soon! Tokyo Ska Orchestra, Out of Control, Adhesivo and Rude Girl Revue brought down the house.