Tough Talk,
My husband and I are really close and are best friends. We did everything together, from bowling to window shopping to talking about our feelings. However, about three months ago his best friend from high school moved to this area of the country. And now he’s like another person. They’re always on the phone and planning activities that don’t include me. Also, when his friend shows up at our door at all hours without even calling, he acts like I’m the hired help and barely acknowledges me. I know everyone needs friends, but this guy really bothers me. What should I do TT? (Crooks’ Point, ID)
CP,
This is a tough one, but you need to lay down some rules with hubby and the old friend. One, he is not allowed over unless you sign off on it. Two, he needs to learn manners and engage in simple greetings. Three, if his attitude to you continues, he is persona non grata and will no longer be welcome at the home. Now, if he doesn’t change, and he does visit which he will do, greet him with a bucket of cold water and then laugh in his face and tell him you had no idea he was there. And now he can’t come inside because he’s all wet. You watch, do this once or twice, and his attitude will improve.
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