Dear Tough Talk,
I work with a man who is really smart and most of the time a good guy. In our office, we support each other by complimenting those who do good work or just try to do well. He is regularly complimented, but never seems to do the same. I’ve spoken with my coworkers and they all say the same thing, he has never once said anything good about an employee, having even made snide remarks. What do you think we should do TT? (Weehawken, VA)
Weehawken,
You only have one option and that is to repay the favor. Unless it’s absolutely necessary, you completely ignore him as if he does not exist. No compliments, no insults, but a complete absence of attention, other than condescending and dismissive looks when he speaks. If he pipes up, say you have no idea what’s he’s talking about.
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Tough Talk 